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How to get your team to prepare for meetings

Show the routine, practice it together, then move preparation earlier. Help people succeed before expecting a new meeting habit.

· 2 min read · Meetings

If your team isn't preparing for meetings, start by showing them how. Open a real update. Explain what makes it useful. Then give everyone time to write their own while you are available to help.

Matt's advice is practical: people need to experience success with a new method before they are likely to keep using it.

Start in the room

For the first meeting, reserve time for writing and reading. Show your own preparation first. Let people ask questions. Then have everyone write, read each other's updates, and add comments before discussion begins.

This takes meeting time. That's intentional. You are teaching the routine rather than assuming everyone already knows it.

For example, show a short update about a delayed project. Include the current status, the blocker, and the proposed next action. Let the group see what “prepared” looks like.

Move one step earlier

Once the group can prepare together, ask people to write before the next meeting. Keep shared reading time at the beginning.

If someone struggles to find writing time, schedule a short preparation session immediately beforehand. Make it easy to succeed instead of turning the missed preparation into a public test of commitment.

Try advance reading when the group is ready

The next step is to submit updates early enough for everyone else to read and comment before the meeting. Agree on the submission deadline and leave a realistic reading window.

This only works when the whole chain works: writing, submission, reading, and comments. If updates arrive at the last minute, the readers cannot do their part.

Keep the stage that works

Matt notes that many teams stay at the middle stage: write in advance, read together. That is a useful operating routine.

If preparation slips, return to a stage the team can reliably complete. Help the person who is stuck. Don't shame them.

At the end of the meeting, ask what made preparation difficult and what would help next time. Fix the obstacle you hear. The aim is a team that comes ready to contribute, not a perfect process on paper.

Questions that come up

What if someone arrives without a written update?

Give them a supported way to prepare, such as a short session before the meeting. If the group cannot sustain advance preparation, return to writing or reading together.

Do we have to move all reading outside the meeting?

No. Matt notes that many teams write beforehand and read together. Keep the stage the team can do reliably.

From the curriculum

Adapted from these sources. The examples in this guide are illustrative unless attributed.